tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post4601749893706090373..comments2024-01-25T00:38:08.564-05:00Comments on The Zenformation Professional: LA FEMME ASSOIFFANTE: Demensions of Lust, The Chastity of Lies, and Eating Adam's Apple in an Ohio EdenThe ZenFo Prohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-53559160481838665942007-10-29T09:59:00.000-04:002007-10-29T09:59:00.000-04:00Your fault?Riiiiight ... because if it hadn't have...Your fault?<BR/><BR/>Riiiiight ... because if it hadn't have happened then, there's no way it would have happened another time, with some other guy.<BR/><BR/>But hey, that's just the fiance's way of doing damage control ... it's quite the ego blow to have the fiancee bed-hopping ... gotta find some blame somewhere, and he sure as hell isn't going to blame the woman he loves/d, breakup or not ... Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-60148263927793903272007-10-26T16:40:00.000-04:002007-10-26T16:40:00.000-04:00Jason,Yeah, same guy. Going on 10 months now. Th...Jason,<BR/><BR/>Yeah, same guy. Going on 10 months now. That's a post-divorce relationship record for me!<BR/><BR/>It's not just that I hate the thought of him cheating on me. I even look back on times when I had casual sex (when I was not in a committed relationship) and I think that's disgusting. I hate to think that he had casual sex, even before he knew me. It's not that there isn't lustLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06366539087326081572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-31321578508938587512007-10-25T09:35:00.000-04:002007-10-25T09:35:00.000-04:00Smurf:You know, the whole purity/promise ring thi...Smurf:<BR/>You know, the whole purity/promise ring thing has always seemed a bit silly - it implies mistrust. It was so hard not laughing, actually.<BR/><BR/>G:<BR/>Dude, that's just what I tried to do - find the silver lining. You do just have to roll with the punches, pay attention, and do damage control later.<BR/><BR/>Lol, one of the things that's always annoyed the shit out of me about The ZenFo Prohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-42565415954635345302007-10-24T08:24:00.000-04:002007-10-24T08:24:00.000-04:00You know I've wanted to leave a comment for a few ...You know I've wanted to leave a comment for a few days but for some reason the comment thing wasn't letting me do it. Oh well.Here goes.<BR/><BR/>At first I read this as a Miamian and got really mad at you. It sounded like you'd sorta knew but still went home with a stereotpical Miami whorebag just to get your dick wet. but then i drove down to Oxford last weekend with my husband. Fall break. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-82692885909367560442007-10-23T19:53:00.000-04:002007-10-23T19:53:00.000-04:00Your life is almost beyond anything I can comprehe...Your life is almost beyond anything I can comprehend. Almost.<BR/><BR/>If you didn't write so well...Cooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02465484210397122019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-12754781747339687542007-10-23T16:00:00.000-04:002007-10-23T16:00:00.000-04:00re the statement about lust ceasing to matter when...re the statement about lust ceasing to matter when you're in love ...<BR/><BR/>I may be misinterpreting that statement, but it made sense to me. When I am in love I find the idea of casual sex horrific. Reading something like what you just wrote about this encounter gives me the creeps. But that's because I'm in love right now. If I read it while not in a relationship, I would think the femaleLizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06366539087326081572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-33625991521798666682007-10-22T21:44:00.000-04:002007-10-22T21:44:00.000-04:00You know they make a good point. When you are in ...You know they make a good point. When you are in love then the other things don't matter. The sad thing is that not a lot of people really experience truely being in love. <BR/><BR/>Oftentimes when people marry they do it out of obligation. That is a travesity too. Throughout the ages you will see that concept over and over. Before it was more common for people to marry as a business Smurfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14942028355851842749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-81124139127028190852007-10-22T01:05:00.000-04:002007-10-22T01:05:00.000-04:00"Love. When I'm in love, lust ceases to matter. I ..."Love. When I'm in love, lust ceases to matter. I guess I'm just a bit old-fashioned, in that sense. The world becomes perfect, moments destroy the concepts of time and space."<BR/><BR/>me too actually. when i'm in love i stop looking somehow. no that isn't it, because i will always look at beautiful people and beautiful men especially but i don't see them as dateable. <BR/><BR/>when i'm in sassinakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01645121606413156698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-5324637262409810552007-10-21T22:05:00.000-04:002007-10-21T22:05:00.000-04:00The juice ain't always worth the squeeze, but damn...The juice ain't always worth the squeeze, but damn, the fruit always looks so good beforehand that it's easy to look past any suspicions of the quality of what's within, so to speak.<BR/><BR/>But hey, no one knows until they know. The bitch is, that moment of <I>knowing</I> usually happens at the most inopportune of times. It never happens conveniently beforehand, at least certainly not the Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-19249341977243908772007-10-21T21:25:00.000-04:002007-10-21T21:25:00.000-04:00Wow. Amazing writing and perception. Extremely d...Wow. Amazing writing and perception. Extremely deep. I am not quite sure what to say, but it is interesting and yet very sad in another way that a ring worn as a promise could be just a cover page or a sheep's CLOTHING for deception. It happens a lot and I think it's great that you write about it. Hopefully it will make people stop and think.Smurfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14942028355851842749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-36281576305501007522007-10-21T18:18:00.000-04:002007-10-21T18:18:00.000-04:00Steph:Damn, and because of this whole mess, the su...Steph:<BR/>Damn, and because of this whole mess, the surprise has been ruined!<BR/><BR/>Can we, still, like, "wait until marriage???" I mean... I'm pure, right?<BR/><BR/>Thanks, chica. You know what I mean.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Xmich:<BR/>Yeah, the purity rings are creepy. We have, here at the Local U., probably one of the largest conservative Christian student populations in public Higher Ed. And, lol,The ZenFo Prohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-92222887734487608392007-10-20T23:27:00.000-04:002007-10-20T23:27:00.000-04:00[Um, the typo is not my fault, something aberrant ...[Um, the typo is not my fault, something aberrant happened during upload, jeez.]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-48707629555422762302007-10-20T23:26:00.000-04:002007-10-20T23:26:00.000-04:00So why are you feeling dirty about all this Pumpki...So why are you feeling dirty about all this Pumpkin? You play hard and dirty all the time and do not normally mind but this one made you annoyed. At the same time, you know, you are smart enough to know, what those emails were pursuing. So I figure you only did it because she was pretty and desirable enough -- until who she was rode through and made her boring, ugly, and predictable.<BR/><BR/>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-9314935695087713112007-10-20T19:24:00.000-04:002007-10-20T19:24:00.000-04:00oh man, J. you and i really need to talk. you thin...oh man, J. you and i really need to talk. you think u're a cynic? have you been reading my blog at all lately? i'm in a club that boasts about its members being persistently unlucky and unpracticed in "love." it's sad, but true.<BR/><BR/>i need to get outta oxford...<BR/><BR/>glad to have found someone i can commiserate with.<BR/>-stephan!estephanie leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13404588235599506154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-8184991783865153292007-10-20T18:11:00.000-04:002007-10-20T18:11:00.000-04:00OMG! okay I really want to say I'm sorry for makin...OMG! okay I really want to say I'm sorry for making it sound like I was trying to blackmail you or something. I just thought that you were hooking up with a chick in the bushes and thougth it was funny. she was hot thoughand i just guessed after you told me about the writing center shit that you were just being a guy. i didn't know seriously and i hope my chat stuff didn't cause you any grief. i Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-14058887633508304952007-10-20T16:06:00.000-04:002007-10-20T16:06:00.000-04:00Hi,Hey I am a woman and have a different perspecti...Hi,<BR/><BR/>Hey I am a woman and have a different perspective here. I can't see sex just being a bodily function. Maybe it's because sex was how I brought two children into this world and I needed to make sure the daddy was gonna stay around long enough to help me raise them. Maybe not. Still, seems really cold and loveless and I can't see that being too good a thing. However, to each theirLife As I Know It Nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03733963455243806298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-5227807770562103412007-10-20T11:15:00.000-04:002007-10-20T11:15:00.000-04:00I had never heard of a purity ring before.. that's...I had never heard of a purity ring before.. that's a new term in my mind now. Poor thing. If she needs to get all this out first.. that's just sad. Very much like an overeater who hides thier oreos in the garage. It's just sad. <BR/><BR/>And don't get to beat up by an anonymous comment. especially one that is looking for answers that they themselves are either in denial about or have no idea. <BRXmichrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08640935280209026338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-23601804940887082382007-10-20T07:02:00.000-04:002007-10-20T07:02:00.000-04:00Wait. So. We're NOT engaged now?Damn! Don't think ...Wait. So. We're NOT engaged now?<BR/><BR/>Damn! Don't think you're getting the ring back either, mister!! :PStephhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09486157834509821905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-48595751239164810092007-10-19T19:49:00.000-04:002007-10-19T19:49:00.000-04:00Jay:Yeah, the damned thing through me for a loop, ...Jay:<BR/>Yeah, the damned thing through me for a loop, that's for sure. I can appreciate someone liking how I write, but I think I'm starting to understand a bit better why people tell me to watch myself around these parts...The ZenFo Prohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-40366159557347058432007-10-19T18:48:00.000-04:002007-10-19T18:48:00.000-04:00Anon:Lol, I think the better question would be "Wh...Anon:<BR/>Lol, I think the better question would be "What are you reading between the lines?" Heh. Amazing what people see when they want to see it. And there is a lot of stuff hidden in there, too, for a reason. For some folks, its a coded message - why bother using names? For others, its just another stupid sex post to gossip about, whisper about, or to completely ignore. And for others, The ZenFo Prohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-61347056259778684372007-10-19T18:47:00.000-04:002007-10-19T18:47:00.000-04:00OUch ouch ouch.It's not easy for anyone.OUch ouch ouch.<BR/>It's not easy for anyone.Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13158409505328990008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-51755836748628717492007-10-19T17:32:00.000-04:002007-10-19T17:32:00.000-04:00Like some other men I know you act as if this all ...Like some other men I know you act as if this all happened against your will. You are all just hard cock and her soon to be guilty conscious I guess. But what about you dear? Don't you VALUE yourself or is it okay to be used as a sexual plaything. Between the lines perhaps your feelings are hurt? Or are you just bragging about another conquest? Maybe a little of all that? Okay. Well I'm Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com