tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post113262672158183256..comments2024-01-25T00:38:08.564-05:00Comments on The Zenformation Professional: When Seemingly Good Boyfriends Turn Out to Be Total Bastards:Patron Privacy Trumps Personal DisgustThe ZenFo Prohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132833199181817692005-11-24T06:53:00.000-05:002005-11-24T06:53:00.000-05:00Try this: Take an item from your lost and found. N...Try this: Take an item from your lost and found. Next time you see doe-eyed walk up to her and ask if she knows who the item belongs to. Explain that you see her boyfriend in the library alot with another girl and you wondered if the item might belong to her or the boyfriend. <BR/><BR/>If they are a three-way you are safe. If he's being a jerk then you at least tipped her off. <BR/><BR/>~BCPAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132804497679358232005-11-23T22:54:00.000-05:002005-11-23T22:54:00.000-05:00Kfig:You are absolutely right about me being that ...Kfig:<BR/>You are absolutely right about me being that asswipe in a previous life. Once a bastard, no matter how reformed, you can always pick up the scent of the "undergrad player." The guy brought some flashbacks on, so maybe it's more a reflection of who I was than who the guy is.<BR/><BR/>G:<BR/>Actually, the shrug-it-off solution is the only way to go. I've already been burned a couple of The ZenFo Prohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05132805758799453850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132707504221864972005-11-22T19:58:00.000-05:002005-11-22T19:58:00.000-05:00We live we learn such is life. Leave it alone and ...We live we learn such is life. Leave it alone and move on.<BR/>Doe eyes girls are not always as innocent and as doe eyed as they seem some are manipulative little bitches and that's a fact you have no way of knowing. Assuming the guy is a player or whatever you still can't do anything about it as you really don't know these people. <BR/>My bacteria meter always goes off when I meet guys like thisCooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02465484210397122019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132688655489550472005-11-22T14:44:00.000-05:002005-11-22T14:44:00.000-05:00Guys are screwed in a situation like this.If you t...Guys are screwed in a situation like this.<BR/>If you tell her she will (depending on how she sees it) either think you're a creepy stranger who watches her too much or a liar.<BR/>If you don't tell her you have to live with the knowledge that some asshole is going to break her heart.<BR/><BR/>Or you could just kick the guys ass next time you see him at the gas station.<BR/>:)SeizeTheNitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00709872464737427389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132688185602778692005-11-22T14:36:00.000-05:002005-11-22T14:36:00.000-05:00It's times like these that I am gald I am not very...It's times like these that I am gald I am not very observant. I'd probably not even noticed. Let's hope it's not a threesome. I'd hate the lucky bastard if that was true.zydeco fishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04298716862271018061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132679170832249362005-11-22T12:06:00.000-05:002005-11-22T12:06:00.000-05:00Hmmm...that is a tough one. Liz actually brings up...Hmmm...that is a tough one. Liz actually brings up a good point, you really don't know the status of their relationship. Although, I would most likely believe he is cheating on her. That the more comman, and more likely the situation. In my opinion, perhaps the two girls should ditch the guy and go out with one another. :)<BR/><BR/>As for you, I would just remain silent. If he is cheating, she'llLeighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13445657465562532218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132668351921124422005-11-22T09:05:00.000-05:002005-11-22T09:05:00.000-05:00You assume that he was cheating on her when you do...You assume that he was cheating on her when you don't even know what their relationsip is. For all you know, they may be polyamorous. Or maybe they were about to have a 3-some. Maybe your "doe-eyed girl" (oh, yes, let's compare womym to fuzzy furry cute animals--THAT's frickin' charming) was somewhere waiting for the other 2 to get there with the condoms.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06366539087326081572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132639275294049322005-11-22T01:01:00.000-05:002005-11-22T01:01:00.000-05:00J, homes, I hear you. And this one tears me. Par...J, homes, I hear you. And this one tears me. Part of me says if I were in your shoes bro, I'd go give a shot at picking her up myself - a little theft action to give it to the bastard where he deserves it, you know?<BR/><BR/>But another part of me (damn conscience) says that may not work if doe-eyes is right under the bastard's spell. At that point you'd feel even more of a chump. Tough Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12678903.post-1132634297293241232005-11-21T23:38:00.000-05:002005-11-21T23:38:00.000-05:00This as with all things in your life will turn you...This as with all things in your life will turn you into a pile of mush. You will keep the asswipes secret because that is the kind of man you are, but when you see the tears streaming down the girls face (and you know you will) you will walk up to her hand her a tissue and ask her if she wants to talk. You will tell her to get out of the library for a little bit and being you offer a cup of KFigmenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09481992815190325715noreply@blogger.com